Why you should wait for the right person to come rather than settled with someone just enough.

 

When we were young, we have so much energy. Unlimited resources. We make acquaintances because that's what young people do. Our bodies and mind are designed for late-night chit-chat and games. We know nothing about responsibilities. 

And then, the real stuff happened. Job, Love, Separation, Stress, Up and Downs. They happen. The last thing you know, you are not young anymore. You are tired, your head is stressed out, your body is burned out and your whole life falls apart. 

Most people failed at this stage of life. When our life falls apart, people start to believe, that's the end of it. And we fall into a tragedy of our life. But again, if we face the fact and the reality, your life, your jobs, your plans.. they are all going to fall apart. In one way or another. It's going to fall into the ashes anyway. Failure, disappointment, disapproval. These are the real things. 

But what if there is someone at home waiting for you, to welcome you with open arms. Someone who'll listen to all your worries, frustrations, and disbelieves. Who does not mind helping you out with the simplest task? Washing your clothes, cooking your meals? Who finds you pretty after your long hour at work. Who still finds you pretty without all your makeup. Who wants to see you in your most comforting pajamas. Who can give you the most comforting hugs and kisses too? Someone whom you can trust. 

You'll find that being in a total state of disapproval and devastated will make no means to you. You'll find that rejection means nothing to you. You'll find that the end means a new beginning. Because that person will open a space in your heart that makes you believe, even if your whole plan didn't go as planned, even how worse your day has become. Someone is still accepting the whole of you. 

Waiting for the right person needs sacrifices. It's a time-consuming process. It takes great patience. You need to be extra careful. You will need to come out with all your resources to find your person. Because that person, that sweet person, will affect your whole entire life. Your decisions, your path, your dream. So it has to be the right person. And so you know, falling apart while you are in a safe hand, doesn't feel like you are falling apart after all. 

Find the right person. Wait, till you find that person. You know it's true. You know it.